Choosing a Boyfriend

A lot of time we need to make decision on our own.Some decision will change our whole life forever, some will only influence others.This is some guidelines..

What Not To Pick

Let's list a few things that should sent up a red flag that this may not be the right guy for you.He lies to you.Has cheated on you.Puts you down in public and in private.Has introduced you to drugs and or alcohol.He puts demands on you.He has threatened you to hurt himself or you if you leave him.Doesn't get along with his parents. Puts his parents down,especially his mother.Doesn't honor or respect you.Is this enough? If any one of these apply to your guy the best thing you can do is rethink about relationship and back off.Relationships were meant to help not to hurt those involved.

What To Look For

He will respect you.He will not make demands from you.He will never think of threatening you.He will tell you the truth.He will not be interested in drugs or alcohol.He will not cheat on you and go with someone else behind your back.Does that sound unrealistic? Is there such a man out there like this? The answer is yes!

More Hints

Every girl needs a little romance and if a man really cares about you he'll enjoy romancing you. Maybe he is just hesitant to show his softer side. Ask him what he wants to do or where he wants to go. This may help him to open up and share his thoughts and feelings with you. If he hints to staying in all the time then you should move on. Unless he enjoys watching romantic films with you on the couch. This guy probably wont be around for long.

Doesn't want to go to public places with you. If a man doesn't want to be seen in public with you he may be having an affair or cheating on his girlfriend and doesn't want to get caught. Or he is embarrassed by the way you dress and present yourself.

Follow your heart.

His behavior is polished, polite and his words are just right. He holds the door, writes you love poems and just love, love, loves you. There's no reason why you shouldn't be head over heels in love with him too. But love is a feeling not a logic. Consider your feelings and his. This is a good guy who deserves some honesty and respect. He deserves to be loved back so if you're not feeling the love, let him go and find true love. I hope you find yours too.