My sister and me..
Monday, 21 November 2011
Sunday, 16 October 2011
Tuesday, 4 October 2011
Monday, 12 September 2011
Saturday, 10 September 2011
Still
I didn’t think it was love, I told myself it wasn’t love
I deceived myself, but my heart kept calling your name
I take one step towards you, push you one step away
Each time, you grow in my heart
I must be loving you this much, must be waiting for you this much
Even though it hurts so much, my heart can’t seem to let you go
I think there must be just one love, I don’t think my heart will change
The love that I’ve kept only for you, I can now finally tell you
Your warm eyes, Your warm love
Flying away farther, but you are still growing up in my heart.
I must be loving you this much, must be waiting for you this much
Even though it hurts so much, my heart can’t seem to let you go
I think there must be just one love, I don’t think my heart will change
The love that I’ve kept only for you, I can now finally tell you
I love you
Sometimes love, at times tears
Even though it’s hard, I love you, I love you
I only need you by my side
I must still be loving you, I must still be waiting for you
My brain might be fooled, but my heart can’t be fooled
I think there must be just one love, I don’t think my heart will change
The love that I’ve kept only for you, I can now finally tell you
I love you
Sarangeun anilgeorago heoldaero anilgeorago
Maebeon sokyeowatjiman naemameun jaggu neoreul bureugo
Hangeoleum buditchyeobogo hangeoleum mileonaebwado
Geureolsurok neon naeane keojyeogago isseo
Geumankeum saranghanabwa geumankeum gidarinabwa
Geutorok apeugehaedo naemameun neol ddeonalsueopnabwa
Sarangeun hanaingabwa naemameun byeonchiannabwa
Neolhyanghae jikyeoon sarang ijeneun da malhalsu itdago
Ddaddeutan neoe nunbichi ddaddeutan neoe sarangeun
Dalanalsurok naeane keojyeogago isseo
Geumankeum saranghanabwa geumankeum gidarinabwa
Geutorok apeugehaedo naemameun neol ddeonalsueopnabwa
Sarangeun hanaingabwa naemameun byeonchiannabwa
Neolhyanghae jikyeoon sarang ijeneun da malhalsu itdago
Neol saranghae
Ddaeroneun sarangi hogeun nunmuli
Uril himdeulgehaedo saranghae saranghae
Naegyeote neoman isseumyeondwae
Yeojeoni saranghanabwa yeojeoni gidarinabwa
Meorireul sogyeoboado gaseumeul sogilsuneun eopnabwa
Sarangeun hanaingabwa naemameun byeonchiannabwa
Neolhyanghae jikyeoon sarang ijeneun da malhalsu itdago
Neol saranghae
Without Word
english lyrics:
I shouldnt have done that,
I should have pretended not to know
like I didnt see it, like I couldnt see it
I shouldnt have looked at you in the first place
I should have pretended not to know
like I didnt see it, like I couldnt see it
I shouldnt have looked at you in the first place
I should have run away,
I should have pretended I wasnt listening
like I didnt hear it, like I couldnt hear it
I shouldnt have heard your love in the first place
I should have pretended I wasnt listening
like I didnt hear it, like I couldnt hear it
I shouldnt have heard your love in the first place
Without a word you made me know love
Without a word you gave me love
Because you took just a breath and ran away like this
Without a word love leaves me
Without a word love abandons me
Wondering what to say next, my lips were surprised
Because it came without a word.
Without a word you gave me love
Because you took just a breath and ran away like this
Without a word love leaves me
Without a word love abandons me
Wondering what to say next, my lips were surprised
Because it came without a word.
Why does it hurt so much?
Why does it hurt continuously?
Except for the fact that I can’t see you anymore
And that you’re not here anymore
Otherwise it’s the same as before
Why does it hurt continuously?
Except for the fact that I can’t see you anymore
And that you’re not here anymore
Otherwise it’s the same as before
Without a word you made me know love
Without a word you gave me love
Because you took just a breath and ran away like this
Without a word love leaves me
Without a word love abandons me
Wondering what to say next, my lips were surprised
Without a word you gave me love
Because you took just a breath and ran away like this
Without a word love leaves me
Without a word love abandons me
Wondering what to say next, my lips were surprised
Promise You
I will promise you
두눈엔 너만 담고 살아갈께
(From now on, I promise to live with my two eyes filled with only you)
I will promise you
두 팔은 널 안고 살아갈께
(From now on, I promise to live with my two arms holding you)
아침에 눈떠 잠든 순간까지 너하나만 그릴께
(In the morning when you wake up to the moment you fall asleep, I promise to picture only you)
사랑해 이 말 잊지마
(Don’t forget these words I love you)
I love you forever
더운 여름날엔 그늘이 되줄께
(In the hot summer days, I promise to become your shade)
비오는 날에는 우산이 되줄께
(In rainy days, I promise to become your umbrella)
걷다가 지칠 때엔 작은 의자도 되줄께
(In times when you walk while you feel tired, I promise to become your little chair)
웃을땐 니 기쁨 두배가 되게 함께 웃을께
(In times of laughter, I promise to laugh with you so your joy will become doubled)
눈물 흘릴땐 수건이 되 널 닦아줄께
(In times when your tears fall, I promise to become your towel to wipe your tears)
I will promise you
두눈엔 너만 담고 살아갈께
(From now on, I promise to live with my two eyes filled with only you)
I will promise you
두 팔은 널 안고 살아갈께
(From now on, I promise to live with my two arms holding you)
아침에 눈떠 잠든 순간까지 너하나만 그릴께
(In the morning when you wake up to the moment you fall asleep, I promise to picture only you)
사랑해 이 말 잊지마
(Don’t forget these words I love you)
I love you forever
Monday, 5 September 2011
Thursday, 1 September 2011
Wednesday, 24 August 2011
Holiday
After 26 august i will be having my holiday,so basically i wont online much on msn...<<<< i also wonder why when i go back home i less online..so you can find me in Twitter / WhatsApps / SMS/ or Just Call ME...that will be the easiest way to find me..i will be coming back KL around 8th September..Just dont hesitate to find me if need help or someone to talk to...Wish all of you a happy holiday...i want include this video..enjoy~
Friday, 19 August 2011
Thursday, 18 August 2011
蘇永康 William So 《那誰》
This one really awesome...even i not good in cantonese but i stil can know some..> <
井柏然-愛情掉在哪裡
Today just heard a song on ONE FM.. this song is nice...i lovin it..
Awesome right?? hahaha
Tuesday, 16 August 2011
My Life
NAME: Micheal Ngo
AGE: 21
BIRTHDATE: Not good to reveal here..
WHAT WAS YOUR:
1. last beverage = Water
2. last phone call = My Sister
3. last text message = My friend
4. last song you listened to = Without You ~ Brian Kang
5. last time you cried = It is a long story..
HAVE YOU EVER:
6. dated someone twice = I am not that lucky..haha
7. been cheated on = Yes
8. kissed someone & regretted it = Seldom kiss people..Wont regret
9. lost someone special = Currently no but will in future
10. been depressed = Everyday for no reason
11. been drunk and threw up = Once but just talk nonsense..
LIST THREE FAVORITE COLOUR:
12. White
13. Blue
14. Light Brown
LAST YEAR (2010), HAVE YOU:
15. Made a new friend = Yes i guess..
16. Fallen out of love = No..coz i not easy to fall in love with girls
17. Laughed until you cried = Only laugh till my mind went off
18. Met someone who changed you = Nope
20. Found out someone was talking about you = I am not that popular..^^
21. Kissed anyone on your FB friend's list = I guess this is not possible
GENERAL:
22. How many people on your FB friends list do you know in real life = I Quit FB
24. Do you have any pets = DOG
25. Do you want to change your name = My name is gift from my parents..NO
26. What did you do for your last birthday = Eat with my family.
27. What time did you wake up today = 9am
28. What were you doing at midnight last night = I sleep before 10.30pm..
29. Name something you CANNOT wait for = Meeting someone special in my life !!!
30. Last time you saw your mother = July..during my birthday
31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life = My face colour..
32. What are you listening to right now = I'm Falling ~Tyler Ward
33. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom? = No such friend name...
34. What's getting on your nerves right now = Loneliness~
35. Most visited webpage = Blog, Tumblr, Youtube, Fashion web
37. Nickname = Mike..latest ~ Shin
38. Relationship Status = Single
39. Zodiac sign = Cancer
40. He or She = He
41. Elementary = MES
42. High School = SMK MES
43. College = UNITEN
44. Hair color = Mixture...brown with black??
45. Long or short = Short
46. Height = 177cm , i just love myself
47. Do you have a crush on someone? = I dont know isit a crush?? I prefer love lo...
49. Piercings = NO
50. Tattoos = No
51. Righty or lefty = Righty
FIRSTS :
52. First surgery = Appendix ( END OF MY LIFE ) haha
53. First piercing = No
54. First best friend = The one that teach me foul word in tamil..swt..
55. First sport you joined = Football
56. First vacation = I seldom go vacation..
58. First pair of trainers = Seem a bit blur here..@@
RIGHT NOW:
59. Eating = No
60. Drinking = Yes..Always drink water..
61. I'm about to = Have my dinner
62. Listening to = B-e-a-utiful ~ Megan Nicole
63. Waiting for = Some one to chat with me..
64. Want kids? = I cannot get pregnant...Hope my wife wants.
65. Get Married? = I think need wait quite long...
66. Career? = I not sure i can go to japan or not..><
WHICH IS BETTER :
67. Lips or eyes = Eyes but if got sexy lips it will be best...
68. Hugs or kisses = Both...Haha...greedy rite?
69. Shorter or taller = Taller
70. Older or Younger = Younger
71. Romantic or Spontaneous = Romantic
72. Nice stomach or nice arms = Nice Stomach but Big Arms
73. Sensitive or loud = Loud
74. Hook-up or relationship = Relationship.Hope it never ends..
75. Trouble maker or hesitant = Both i guess..
HAVE YOU EVER :
76. Kissed a stranger = I dont get to know stranger that much..
77. Drank hard liquor = Yes
78. Lost glasses/contacts = I no wear glasses..How to get lost?
79. Sex on first date = Hmm..I guess i can wait till married?
80. Broke someone's heart = I think got but i dont know who...
81. Had your own heart broken = Yes
82. Been arrested = YES~ by my dad when i at cyber cafe..haha
83. Turned someone down = Seldom but depend on my mood..
84. Cried when someone died = Sometime
85. Fallen for a friend = Yes
DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
86. Yourself = Yes
87. Miracles = Everyday always got miracles..
88. Love at first sight = YES..and this happen to me recently..haha
89. Heaven = Yes
90. Santa Claus = No..because he never come even for so long..
91. Kiss on the first date = Yes if my GF allow me to kiss her.
92 . Angels = Yes
Saturday, 13 August 2011
You've Fallen For Me
You have fallen for me
The beginning started coincidentally for us.
At first, I’d never knew this would be love even in my dream, but it is.
Your heart keeps going thump thump
You keep smiling at me and starting to love me without even realizing it.
You have fallen for me, fallen for me, melted in my sweet love.
You have fallen for me, fallen for me, mesmerized by my charming gaze.
See my eyes You fell for me
See my eyes You have fallen for me
Love always comes unexpectedly like destiny.
It soaked me like shower I’d never know it was love.
even eyes closed, i occur to you from time to time.
Whenever you see your face blushing, You fall in love with me without even realizing it.
You have fallen for me, fallen for me, melted in my sweet love.
You have fallen for me, fallen for me, mesmerized by charming gaze.
See my eyes You fell for me
See my eyes You have fallen for me
I fall in love with you too Now i will confess I am in love with you.
I fall in love with you too My heart says I am in love with you.
See your eyes just look at me
See your eyes I love you
The beginning started coincidentally for us.
At first, I’d never knew this would be love even in my dream, but it is.
Your heart keeps going thump thump
You keep smiling at me and starting to love me without even realizing it.
You have fallen for me, fallen for me, melted in my sweet love.
You have fallen for me, fallen for me, mesmerized by my charming gaze.
See my eyes You fell for me
See my eyes You have fallen for me
Love always comes unexpectedly like destiny.
It soaked me like shower I’d never know it was love.
even eyes closed, i occur to you from time to time.
Whenever you see your face blushing, You fall in love with me without even realizing it.
You have fallen for me, fallen for me, melted in my sweet love.
You have fallen for me, fallen for me, mesmerized by charming gaze.
See my eyes You fell for me
See my eyes You have fallen for me
I fall in love with you too Now i will confess I am in love with you.
I fall in love with you too My heart says I am in love with you.
See your eyes just look at me
See your eyes I love you
See my eyes forever and ever even after time passes
See my eyes without knowing it you have fallen for me.
You Don't Know
I met you, loved you and hurt by that love
Just looking at you without being beside you, I’m a fool.
When you cried, I cried. When you smiled, I smiled.
Like a child, just following you whatever you do, I’m a fool.
I love you but you can’t hear it
I love you but you don’t know it
I shed teardrops in my heart but you don’t see it
I call out your name but you can’t hear it.
You are the only one for me but you don’t know it.
My love is blind, my love is poignant, and I can’t do that.
Just turn around and I’m right here behind you.
When you’re tired of someone else’s love, hurt by someone else’s love
Just turn around once.
I love you but you can’t hear it
I love you but you don’t know it
I shed teardrops in my heart but you don’t see it
I call out your name but you can’t hear it.
You are the only one but you don’t know it.
My love is blind, my love is poignant, and I can’t do that.
Today I call you a thousand times..
Even though you can’t hear it.
I love you so, please look at me
I love you so, please come to me
Please come one step closer, I will wait for you.
I’m sorry because I only know you
I’m nothing without you.
Because of this bitter love, I call for you.
You don’t know…
Even If It’s Not Necessary
You don’t have to but if by chance
Would you remember me?
I wasn’t talented but I made you laugh for a little while
If you were hurt from our love,
And there were no good memories,
Would you remember them at least just once?
Would you remember me if you meet someone like me?
Would you remember me if you hear the song that we used to listen to?
would you remember me if you meet someone with the same name as me?
You don’t have to but please remember me at least just once
How are you lately?
I ask about you
I wonder if you could hear me
If you forgot me already, could you remember me again?
If you were happy for just one moment
and I was the reason for that
Will you remember me at least just once?
Would you remember me if you meet someone like me?
Would you remember me if you hear the song that we used to listen to?
would you remember me if you meet someone with the same name as me?
You don’t have to but please remember me at least just once
I’m different
I remember you without meeting someone like you
I remember you whatever you do somewhere
I remember you without meeting someone with the same name as you
I remember you while I breathe
I do
Friday, 12 August 2011
You’ve Fallen for Me @ Heartstrings
Title: 넌 내게 반했어 / Neon Naege Banhaesseo / You’ve Fallen for Me
Chinese Title: 為我著迷
Also Known as: Falling in Love / Heartstrings
Previously known as: 페스티벌 / Festival
Genre: Romance, music
Episodes: 15 + 1 Special
Broadcast network: MBC
Broadcast period: 2011-June-29 to 2011-Aug-18
Air time: Wednesday & Thursday 21:55
Chinese Title: 為我著迷
Also Known as: Falling in Love / Heartstrings
Previously known as: 페스티벌 / Festival
Genre: Romance, music
Episodes: 15 + 1 Special
Broadcast network: MBC
Broadcast period: 2011-June-29 to 2011-Aug-18
Air time: Wednesday & Thursday 21:55
Synopsis
Lee Shin is a university student majoring in modern music. He is also the vocalist and guitarist of the band “The Stupid.” Shin is known for his good looks and strong passion for music, but in reality he is cold, lacks interest in anything unrelated to music and has neither dreams nor plans for the future. He initially likes Jung Yoon Soo, a dance professor at university, but this all changes when he meets Lee Kyu Won.
Lee Kyu Won is a bright and outgoing student who was born into a prestigious family and is majoring in traditional Korean instruments, especially the gayageum. Kyu Won’s grandfather, Lee Dong Gun, is one of the top 3 traditional musicians of his age and his biggest wish is to see his granddaughter become a traditional music prodigy. Trying to live up to her grandfather’s expectations, Kyu Won immerses herself in training and becomes a university student who knows nothing outside of her studies. As her friends are fans of “The Stupid”, she was forced to go to the band’s concert with them. There she saw Lee Shin performing live, and is immediately captivated by him.
Thursday, 11 August 2011
Secret Sign A Guy Likes A Girl
1.Sure Signs - Long and spontaneous phone calls or he answers your texts and emails right away. It well known that most guy don't like the phone much. However this can be very different when it comes to a girl he really likes. If you find that when you are not together that he is always unexpectedly calling you for long periods of time then this is definitely one of the signs he likes you.
2.Sure Signs - An Effort to Change. What i mean here is he will aware of what you say and think about it. For example, if he finds out that you prefer guys with short hair and then he suddenly gets his hair cut short.
3.He initiates "accidentally-on-purpose" physical contact. If he uses that busy crosswalk as an opportunity to hold your hand, under the guise of "protecting you", he's likely loving the sly way he gets to touch you.
4.He can't help smiling when he looks at you. An unbridled sparkle in his eyes when he's looking at you is a big hint he's crushing on you. He can't stop thinking about how cute you look when you're disagreeing with his fantasy football choices. And let's face it, you are pretty darn cute..HAHA..
5.He wants to do the things you want to do. If he can sit through few hours and go to anywhere you go without complaining, therefore the chances are very high he likes you. He doesn't care what mundane things you're doing, as long as he gets to do them with you.
6.He likes you better as it is. He will like some part of your body that even thought you don't need to do make-up, he will think that the one which make you the most beautiful person in this world.
7.He makes and ass of himself. He will try things the girl like even if he finds them torturous because he just want to have good time together with you.
8.You're oh-so-funny. You may think you have a great sense of humour and tell awesome jokes, but normally you don't even get a snicker out of your friends with your jokes. But this one guy loves them and laughs every time-- he could be crushing on you and your funny bone.
9.He really listens to you. He seems to remember every detail you told him months ago in an office meeting--you like your latte made with soy and a dash of cinnamon.Now he's bringing you a soy latte when he does a coffee run, complete with the dash of cinnamon.
10.He's overly concerned. Good friends are concerned about you, but a guy who likes you would always be overly concerned.He would remind you about all your appointments, he'd ask you if you had lunch, he offer you a jacket even if it isn't cold. This can be cute at most times, and rather irritating at other times. But it's just something the guy can't help but do if he really does like you. Any guy who likes you would want to take care of you too, so if you find a guy becoming overly concerned and caring, it probably means there's something in the air.
Tuesday, 9 August 2011
DIY
I wonder why today i so motivated to change my room condition.. This is the picture of my current setting.. Did u all notice something different in this picture?
I got nothing to do so i paste the paper bag on the wall.. At first it look odd but after i see if for many time it look so nice..Then i just got an idea which is i can put stuff inside the paper bag.. Meaning i can save paper and also save space.. This is the picture ...Hope you all enjoy..Haha
I got nothing to do so i paste the paper bag on the wall.. At first it look odd but after i see if for many time it look so nice..Then i just got an idea which is i can put stuff inside the paper bag.. Meaning i can save paper and also save space.. This is the picture ...Hope you all enjoy..Haha
Tuesday, 2 August 2011
Nothing about look
Nine things guys find sexy about you that have nothing to do with how you look
These nine things are:
1.Your walk.Confident in heels,or sultry and hip-swinging,pretty much anything but a manly clomp.
2.Your voice.I'm assuming the baby talk voice is a big turn off,but anything else gets a thumbs up.
3.Your sharp wit.Alden writes."Just watch any classic screwball comedy - verbal sparring is the ultimate foreplay."
4.The way you dance.Even if you're not dirty dancing,dancing of any kind is certainly suggestive and,if you're good at it,a major turn-on.
5.Your adventurous spirit.Being game implies that you might be willing to be just adventurous.
6.Your shyness.Guys get a charge out of,as Ludacris says, " A lady in the street, but a freak in the bed."
7.Your laugh.Alden reminisces, "I think the laugh was the first thing i ever found sexy.Before I knew what sexy was, I remember hearing Kathleen Turner's laugh(I was probably 7) and feeling something......different."
8.The way you smell. This is not about your coconut shampoo or your Beyonce perfume, this is about the inherent YOU smell. Probably comes from a deep evolutionary/chemical place that we don't have room to explore here.
9.Your ability to communicate. After all, you have to eventually put your clothes back on and look each other in the eye and connect over something else other than that you both enjoy those fuzzy handcuffs.
QUOTE from CloveTwo..
For me, No 7 ( Your laugh) should be the first one...Because i think it bring so much sweet memory and joy to me..
These nine things are:
1.Your walk.Confident in heels,or sultry and hip-swinging,pretty much anything but a manly clomp.
2.Your voice.I'm assuming the baby talk voice is a big turn off,but anything else gets a thumbs up.
3.Your sharp wit.Alden writes."Just watch any classic screwball comedy - verbal sparring is the ultimate foreplay."
4.The way you dance.Even if you're not dirty dancing,dancing of any kind is certainly suggestive and,if you're good at it,a major turn-on.
5.Your adventurous spirit.Being game implies that you might be willing to be just adventurous.
6.Your shyness.Guys get a charge out of,as Ludacris says, " A lady in the street, but a freak in the bed."
7.Your laugh.Alden reminisces, "I think the laugh was the first thing i ever found sexy.Before I knew what sexy was, I remember hearing Kathleen Turner's laugh(I was probably 7) and feeling something......different."
8.The way you smell. This is not about your coconut shampoo or your Beyonce perfume, this is about the inherent YOU smell. Probably comes from a deep evolutionary/chemical place that we don't have room to explore here.
9.Your ability to communicate. After all, you have to eventually put your clothes back on and look each other in the eye and connect over something else other than that you both enjoy those fuzzy handcuffs.
QUOTE from CloveTwo..
For me, No 7 ( Your laugh) should be the first one...Because i think it bring so much sweet memory and joy to me..
Saturday, 30 July 2011
Great movie
Today i just watch captain america..the movie are nice and at the end part got a bit quite touching part..imagine you want to be together but you don't have the chance to come back anymore...is like you will be gone forever...
Friday, 29 July 2011
Sing K
Yesterday i went to Red Box with my senior and also my friends..I sing until my voice also gone..This is the picture i have taken.
Miss Eleen what are u doing with the stick in your mouth...And who are u looking at? hahahaha
My terrible fat face with full of egg inside my mouth... really ugly lo
Sunday, 24 July 2011
Alone
Today i eat alone again.. It seem eating alone are too lonely but what can i do? I just hate to have my meal alone... I don't know what should i eat, so i thought want to try out Ichiban Ramen at Jusco Cheras Selatan.This is the food i order Grilled Salmon Fish Bento...
At first the food look nice, but then i feel disappointed.The chicken too salty, egg pudding taste terrible...overall i give 4/10 just because the salmon fish seem ok..
Thursday, 21 July 2011
Tumblr
Hi , i am back again... This time i going to bring a good news because i just open a new Tumblr account.. So i going to post most of my photo there..but i will try to link it from here.. Hope u visit my Tumblr page too.. Enjoy.....just drop by any comment u like..
http://mikeika.tumblr.com/
http://mikeika.tumblr.com/
Sunday, 10 July 2011
SM The Ballad Vol 1( Miss You)
This is a nice sentimental MV i ever heard and see.
It talk about a guy save a fallen girl angel from the sky.
At first the angel scare what will happen to her,
then she put her first trust into that guy by letting him help her.
That guy heal her wound and pain.
Due to the sincere and caring heart of that guy, the angel start to put more trust in him.
The angel feel secure and safe with that guy.
The angel feel comfortable and when that guy saw her smile, he feel happy in his heart.
They have a happy time together.
Got one night, they went to the rooftop and finally the angel accept that guy as her boyfriend.
The angel open her wing widely , and the scene is so romantic.
Then one night, 2 unknown person come and capture the angel.
The guy feel that he is so useless,cannot protect his girlfriend even when she is in trouble.
The angel open her wing and then that guy is back to his room again.
The guy saw a white feather in his room,
he see his camera that the angel has fly back to her own place.
Then tears started to drop from the guy eyes.
He cannot stop the angel from going away even though he Love her so much.
When i see finish, i wish that the ending will not be so cruel. But it seem that in reality, this kind of situation always happen.I feel so sad because since they both love each other yet cannot be together.I think love is not always as what we expect to be.Some time there are obstacle and challenges to be overcome, but we can make it better by holding hands and move forward together rather than giving up.I cried after i listen to this MV many times..It really touch my heart..
This is the link to the MV
[S.M. The Ballad - Miss You - English Translation]
[KYUHYUN]
It hurts since I can’t forget that
Looks like here is not the place where you’re supposed to be
It hurts since I can’t forget that
Looks like here is not the place where you’re supposed to be
[JAY]
You don’t have to hold back for me
It all will end someday too anyway
You don’t have to hold back for me
It all will end someday too anyway
[JONGHYUN]
My love just can’t seem to reach you
Just as much as the amount of tears that flowed, it’s still far away to go
My love just can’t seem to reach you
Just as much as the amount of tears that flowed, it’s still far away to go
[JINO]
I have to forget you, I miss you so much
Even if you never know how much it hurts, I will forget
I have to forget you, I miss you so much
Even if you never know how much it hurts, I will forget
[JONGHYUN]
I’m a fool, you know me
My heart’s been ripped apart, but I can only smile
I’m a fool, you know me
My heart’s been ripped apart, but I can only smile
[JINO]
I’ll still be waiting for you till forever
As I will keep hiding my tears
Would you come back to me?
I’ll still be waiting for you till forever
As I will keep hiding my tears
Would you come back to me?
[KYUHYUN]
My love just can’t seem to reach you
Just as much as the amount of tears that flowed, it’s still far away to go
My love just can’t seem to reach you
Just as much as the amount of tears that flowed, it’s still far away to go
[JAY]
I have to forget you, I miss you so much
Even if you never know how much it hurts, I will forget
I have to forget you, I miss you so much
Even if you never know how much it hurts, I will forget
[JINO]
To forget you, even to erase you
[JONGHYUN]
For me they are very difficult things to do
To forget you, even to erase you
[JONGHYUN]
For me they are very difficult things to do
[KYUHYUN]
My love just can’t seem to reach you
Just as much as the amount of tears that flowed, it’s still far away to go
My love just can’t seem to reach you
Just as much as the amount of tears that flowed, it’s still far away to go
[JONGHYUN]
I have to forget you, I miss you so much
Even if you never know how much it hurts, I will forget
I have to forget you, I miss you so much
Even if you never know how much it hurts, I will forget
[KYUHYUN]
My heart just doesn’t seem to reach you
Tears keep rolling down like crazy
[JAY]
I think I can’t do it
[JONGHYUN]
I can’t forget you
[KYUHYUN]
Even if I just feel like dying
I can’t let go of your love
[JAY]
I’m alive this way
My heart just doesn’t seem to reach you
Tears keep rolling down like crazy
[JAY]
I think I can’t do it
[JONGHYUN]
I can’t forget you
[KYUHYUN]
Even if I just feel like dying
I can’t let go of your love
[JAY]
I’m alive this way
Saturday, 9 July 2011
Becoming a Good Boyfriend
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1.Be Honest. In a relationship, honesty is by far the best policy. It may be difficult, but the truth will allow relationships to breathe. It is tough but no matter what happens, no one can ever challenge the fact that you are truthful, which might mean that the other person also gives you the same respect. Statistically, studies found that when a couple were more honest from the start they were more likely to become spouses or long-term partners. If you have a relevant opinion, let them know, otherwise you aren't giving them a chance to fix things and grow. Don't always try to make it sound like a compliment. It's fine to suggest an alternative, and attach praise to the alternative (For example, if they ask you if you like something they are trying on, let them know that it might work, but you think the blue one is your favourite so far because it shows off their great side.) But if you do that, eventually she's going to wear the original article that you didn't like, and eventually you will both get very tired of that strategy. It's the same with other problems: telling her what you like is fine, but you have to tell her what you don't like as well. Sugar-coating is fine, but deflecting isn't. Expect this kind of honesty back, and if you both realize that expressing such opinions just comes out of caring and honesty, you'll both have a better relationship.
2.Don't brush them off. People often find it exasperating when they get the feeling their partner treats them as an inferior in a relationship. Women are no exception. If you really honestly care about that person then you will spend the time that they rightly deserve, or at least discuss the situation. Remember, she is your girlfriend because she likes being around you. Some girls have been taught that the only way to get attention when their boyfriend ignoring them is to act more emotional and be louder until you finally surrender and pay attention to her, even if in annoyance. If people feel they're being given the cold treatment by people who are supposed to be important to them, they get worried. Especially when it happens without you giving an explanation for why this disturbance has occurred. People aren't mind readers. Your mate is not likely to be able to guess that you're cranky because they wouldn't let you do something that they felt was very trivial, whereas you found it important. If you know that your mood might lead you to overreact, simply say "I'm pretty angry and I don't want to fight like that. Let's talk later" (Don't forget to follow through and actually give her your time later.)
3.Communicate. When you talk, you want to get a 50-50 balance in the flow of conversation. Neither gender enjoys an overly quiet (she thinks: uninterested/distant) or overly talkative (she thinks: self-obsessed/impolite). Unless of course something very exciting or important has happened for one of you, in which case a bit of conversation-dominance is expected. If you don't feel much like talking at some point, keep a flow of small questions going. For example, ask them what type of movies they enjoy, or about one of her favourites. If you know it, talk about it a little bit in an honest way, what you thought of it, and make a guess at why they might have liked it. Even if you are wrong, your mate will usually love the fact that you are interested enough to try. Remember, the opposite of talking is not waiting for your turn, it's listening. Make sure you're actually listening, not just waiting for your turn to talk. Don't listen too intensely, staring and not once breaking eye contact is a bit scary, but certainly seem interested.
4.Make physical contact. Girls have much thinner skin than guys, so even a light touch is appreciated. If your girl is a romantic, upon seeing her for the first time in a couple of days, say, "I missed you..." and weave your arms around her hips then give her a loving hug. Don't make it last too long! A hug in public can last anywhere from 5 seconds, to a minute or two. If you have been together with your girlfriend for longer, and have kissed before, feel free to also give light kissed on her lips /cheeks / forehead/neck just to show that you really appreciate her presence. Or just kiss her hand (not in the bowing in front of her way though, just clasp and bring it up to your lips) Make sure to do it in private or a discrete place if you're not sure how your girlfriend feels about public displays of affection.
5.Gifts. Put thought into birthday, Valentine's Christmas or anniversary gifts (by the way, it's the 21st century. Your phone has a calender and alarm on it so there's no excuse to forget). Give yourself time to think of what she would like. That way you can find it at a reasonable price and it will still say a lot. A necklace for instance can be tacky if it's not thought out, but silver (which isn't really expensive) and a pendant that means something to her (her name, a snowflake if she loves to ski/skate, a musical note if she's musical, ect) can make it really sweet. And always add a little chocolate. Gifts can also be a nice surprise. Listen to them when you are out window shopping, and if there is something they like, and it's within your price range, remember it and surprise them with it when they least expect it, for no reason at all. Or pick something up on your way home from work or school, and tell them you were thinking of them when you saw it. It doesn't have to be big or expensive--a book you know they will like, or a CD of their favourite band are nice gestures. As Sean Connery says, "The way to a woman's heart is through an unexpected gift at an unexpected time."
6.Mix things up. Go to a new restaurant, try a new nightclub or go to a new part of town. Even if you both end up hating it, it's an experience you can share and that's what it's all about isn't it? Creating memories together. Surprise them by doing something offbeat--think less maudlin and more personal. This includes anything from racing them to your walking destination, dancing without music, or even bringing them a tub of LEGO and encouraging their immediate use. You two should grow to be comfortable with each other, and do things together without self-consciousness. Ideally, they should never feel stupid around you for wanting or doing a particular thing. Step out of your comfort zone. Sometimes, in order to get things going, you need to be the one to step out of the comfort zone.
7.Compliment them sincerely. Find something particular and compliment them on it, but mean it. Don't just say, "You look nice". Say "That really makes your eyes flash", "Your hair cut really suits the shape of your face" or "That makes me want to kiss your neck" ...and then kiss their neck! The more specific you are, the more unique and appreciative the compliment.
8.Let your partner be. Just because she is your significant other, doesn't mean she is yours, implying any kind of ownership. You can't keep this person all to yourself. You might get jealous if they talk to someone else, but if you trust them and are good to them, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. If their actions do make you feel uncomfortable, sit down and talk, again using nonviolent communication. Same goes for how they dress and look. They may not always feel like spending an hour plucking, tweezing, clipping this, applying that. Make sure they know they can relax and be themselves with you. Don't make them feel like they always have to look like a celestial being. If they're letting themselves go, so to speak, bring it up in a gentle and helpful way, like "What ever happened to your red lipstick? You have gorgeous lips, and I love it when you highlight them once in a while. It looks amazing."
9.Take care of yourself. Don't be needy or dependent. Nothing scares someone away faster than someone they constantly need to remind to do laundry, take a shower, or get to work on time. Be hygienic and neat, set goals, and work hard. You can't be a good boyfriend if you're not a good person.
10.Be open. Being open to one's mate will show care and concern on her thoughts and feelings. Being open will also allow you to create a more open relationship towards each other as well as creating a very good understanding in what your mate wants, feels, and needs. It will help to be open because you show that you can be trusted. After all, love is a good combination of trust and commitment. Openness, in line with honesty will blend in perfect harmony and make your relationship last a long time.
11.Be supportive. Being supportive plays a very crucial part in keeping a relationship strong. Make her needs a priority. Make sure you are with her with what she wants all the time. 110% supportive. Upon supporting your mate, it will usher in a new and improved sense of security.
12.If she suffers the death of a pet, remember that to her it is a BIG deal. Women are programed to fall in love with their offspring, and most women refer to their pets as their babies and treat them as such. If she cries, do not tell her to stop. Instead, take the time and hold her, comfort her. She will probably fall asleep after she cries herself out. Do not leave (unless you're going no further than the kitchen to fix a snack for her when she wakes up, something simple that doesn't need to be refrigerated, or the bathroom). When she wakes, give her a hug and suggest doing something simple together such as watching tv and keeping contact. If she talks about her pet, listen, tell her the pet had a good life because of her, and that it probably appreciated it. If you know the pet's name, use it instead of saying "your cat". She'll be ok in a few days, although she might tear up a little when the pet is mentioned.
13.If she cries for a reason you can't be sure of, first determine if the tears are happy, sad, or frustrated. If happy, then be happy with her. If sad, find out what made her sad, and comfort her. DO NOT tell her to stop crying, doing so makes her feel like she's being a burden to you or like you don't care. She'll stop crying eventually, just pet her hair (which most women find comforting) and hold her gently but securely as she may go limp once you touch her and really let loose. If she has trouble breathing, get her water. If the tears are of frustration, calm her down, ask specific questions about what happened, and try to fix it if you can. If you cannot fix it, find someone who can and wait for her to calm down before asking them over to help. If it can't be fixed, and is an inanimate object causing the problem, feel free to insult it and say it should have been made for rocket scientists or something of the like.
14.Remember she talks to her friends. If you don't know what she wants for a present, ask them, they probably know most of her dream dates, favorite spots, favorite brands, and what she absolutely hates. However, do not ask her friends what is wrong with her if you two have had a fight, they will almost always choose her side and word will get back to her. Be nice to her friends, if they don't like you, they may give her advice against being with you (especially if you are a complete jerk to them or refuse to let her spend time with them).
15.Show affection. Show her that you love her, maybe some PDA, but don't over do it, you don't want to make her uncomfortable. Remember to read her signs, if she's not in the mood, don't kiss her!
16.Even if you don't like her siblings, don't tell her that or even show it, she'll dump you really fast.
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"Quote from WikiHow "
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